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Jun 13, 2022

I cried so much this morning…😭😭😭

I didn’t even know I was going to.

I set my intention to get the best out of a free call I manifested with an incredible human…

Before the call, I set my intention to get the best outcome for both of us from the call (something I learned recently and a wonderful way to start a call)πŸ₯°

I also allowed myself to share whatever came up, no plans, no real prep (which is unusual for me)πŸ™„

When I started speaking two things happened:😳

I started talking about a topic I did not even think I was going to talk about…😲

I had tears running down my face, which I didn’t expect at all!😭😭😭😭😭

The session was amazing, but what it revealed was even more amazing…🀩πŸ’₯

I journaled on it a few more minutes after the session.

In my journal I was writing... home is where the heart is, this is why I was so full of tears...

I miss being with my family in Turkey, as I probably left my not so grown-up self, back there

Then I realised my heart is always with me and I take it wherever I go... πŸ’₯πŸ’₯

I get to create the life and home (I had when I lived in Turkey with so much love and joy) here with my family, on my own terms, because love is where my heart is, and I take my heart wherever I go...πŸ’₯❀️❀️❀️❀️

When I finished, I was taking my coffee cup downstairs... I looked at it, and this is what I saw🀯

A heart with a person on top riding what looks like a snow/skateboard with arms wide open!!!! It in fact looked like a person riding a wave on a heart, and the heart is the surfboard!

Nobody teaches you to love yourself! Not at school not at home, nowhere in life in fact, until your lack of self-love manifests in your outcomes.

And the chances are if you are not aware you might even die not experiencing any self-love at all.😒

What we are taught instead is:

-     To work hard

-     To achieve things

-     To be successful

-     To be approved/accepted/appreciated by others

Never in any curriculum will you ever hear or see - love yourself first!😲

This is why most of us live our lives striving to conform to the above and when we don’t;

We judge, criticize and be hard on ourselves and then to top it up: Live with the guilt and shame that comes with not conforming to it all.

When you listen to Ian and I on this week’s podcast episode 45 where you will hear the impact of talking down to yourself and self-sabotage (without even knowing) on your life in practical terms.

Lack of self-love manifests in many ways that might not be obvious to you.

This is why I decided to cover an intimate 1-hour Masterclass I am doing on June 29th!

This is going to be EPIC!

because everything I will share is everything I have experienced, done the work on and helped other people with.

Register now using this link and give yourself the gift of discovering what Self-Love can actually bring to your life.

You see, you can change your circumstances,

your job,

your boss,

your lover or whatever you think that is not making you happy right now…

but as you already know,

Nothing will change for you until YOU change!

So, join me on June 29th at 12.00 pm BST to discover the power of this work!

The class itself is life-changing!

Until next time…


P. S. If you cannot wait that long, there are 3 ways I can help you now...

1. Book a free clarity call here


2. Discover the emotional drivers that are causing every decision you make subconsciously here

3. Start your transformation from the inside out at your own pace with the self-study version of my transformational coaching programme here 

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